If at all possible, use freshly ground nutmeg for this recipe. If you have a chunk of nutmeg at home, scraping it with a microplane is ideal; but if that isn't an option, see if you can hunt down some freshly ground nutmeg in bulk at Whole Foods or another organic market. Nutmeg is such a defining flavor in egg nog that this pie really benefits from the heavenly smell and taste you get when it's freshly ground.